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Update on four week old not sleeping in arms
Hello,
Thanks for the reply- not sure why my other replies haven't made it onto the forum. No massive improvement in the last two weeks. During the day, it's really hard to setlle him anywhere other than in arms for a nap. He'll settle eventually when comforted but then when I try to put him in his moses basket he'll twig he's not in arms and scream. This usually goes on until mid-afternoon when he might eventually nod off in his basket, but not always, and is more likely to sleep on the sofa than in the basket. we've been letting him sleep in arms a bit as I'm sure he's over tired. He's had a really bad attack of colic so he's not slept in his moses basket since Thurs night as we spent so long trying to console him.
At night, he's oddly not too bad and is putting on weight fine. He'll have a late feed and then with some cuddling and holding - unless the colic's kicked in, he'll go to sleep for a few hours. On waking about 3 or 4am he'll feed but just won't go back to sleep. we'll be awake until nearly his next feed is due. The odd thing is he screams less and is easier to comfort, but just won't nod off unless I walk him round a lot, and again hates being put into Moses basket even with the floppy arm test. In a colic attack, there's no chance of him going in the basket.
He's tummy is bothering him, as when he tries to pass wind you can see he's unhappy, so we're treating with infacol. we've also now tried gripe water but it's good for burps but not bottom end. But even when the colic isn't bothering him, he still won't go in the basket.
I'm basically stuck with him all day in arms, and even if I leave my arm under him, he still seems to know I'm trying to put him down and cries even before he's touched down!!
His moses basket is proped up at the head end, and we're thinking he would prefer to sleep on his front!!
any more advice would be great.
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Hello Clare,Sorry to hear
Hello Clare,
Sorry to hear you are still having a tough time. it is so difficult when you have an unsettled baby. It could well be the fact that he is so uncomfortable in his abdomen that is preventing him from sleeping in the moses basket. Quite often if babies are uncomfortable they need movement to help get them off to sleep. While he is so young and uncomfortable there is no sleep training technique at the moment however have you tried to pat and rock him while he is in the basket? You could also try a bit of swaddling as long as his head is not covered and he is not going to be too hot.
Have you tried any massage with him to see if that will help to settle him.
For the night time when he is awake if he is not demanding any attention just try and leave him in the hope that he will eventually get himself back off to sleep. What you don't want to be doing is rewarding the waking in any way so he gets used to attention each time he is awake.
Sorry i have no magical solutions - it is so hard when they are young and fussy but it will get better over the next few weeks as he grows and develops and if you are still having problems do come back to the forum.
Best wishes
Juliet